Was 2019 a "ho-hum" year for you in terms of dating? Need a pick-me-up and a fresh start to get you energized again? I understand how that can be, and I'm here to help.
My first suggestion is to look at 2020 as a new opportunity to redefine your dating strategy and outlook. Here are some good ways to start:
1) Get healthy! Do what you need to for your physical, mental, emotional health so you have the energy, self-confidence, and enthusiasm you'll need to venture into the dating world.
2) Get positive! Find ways to have fun and be passionate about something. Join a group or club or take a class that excites you. There's nothing more attractive than someone who's happy, active, and enjoying life.
3) Get involved! Interact with others who are making a positive difference in your community or area. This will get you revved up about life again and help you cross paths with new people--new friends to accompany you to singles activities and possibly even potential dates.
4) Try something totally new! We all know the definition of insanity is doing the same thing you did before and expecting different results. That's why you need to try a new singles activity, hobby group, or online dating site every month (or as often as possible; I can help you find these). Leave your 2019 strategy behind. Mix it up in this new year! That's the only way to meet people you've never met before.
5) Relax! Don't fixate on finding "the one" or beat yourself up every time a singles event or online dating site doesn't work out. It's not a life-or-death matter if someone doesn't respond to your email or in-person flirtation. And it doesn't help if you take it personally. Keep your sense of humor about it, learn from the situation, and try again later.
Ready to reignite your dating life? I can help make that happen! Contact me to keep you on track and motivated to use these 5 strategies. Call or email me today!
(267-245-3023; gayle@datingsuccesscoaching.com)
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